Because people like to see children smiling and happy, but sometimes tickling isn’t true happiness - it is a reflex - especially if it wasn’t tickling that they wanted to partake in initially. twitter.com/marssqpluto/st…
I was being very dramatic lmaooo but I did also read that when children ASK to be tickled is way different than you initiating it. That sort of control should be amplified! twitter.com/stefitii/statu…
Obsessing about figuring things out and trying to understand your feelings can turn into intellectualizing them instead of actually feeling. You don’t need to know why you feel a certain way all the time, because it won’t always make sense. You just need to accept the feelings.