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Life is identity work and we come to know about our identity through relationships and friendships. Therefore, healthy friendships and good relationships are essential to our sense of self and identity. @MHChat #MHChat
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In that sense, friendships are a reflection and an integral extension of our identity and at the same time they shape and support our identity and development. @MHChat #MHChat
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Thank you for joining & sharing your views about friendship @MHChat we'll leave this chat open until next week so everyone can share their views @MHChat. We won't have a chat next week & wish you care, kindness & healthy friendships & look forward to seeing you 1 June #MHChat
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@aneweratms @dajjal_dd @MHChat I made this mistake with a friend and almost ruined the friendship circle, because things got really awkward after we ended the intimacy. In retrospect, he probably was never a friend. #MHChat
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@MHChat Friendship gives meaning to our life, makes it colorful. But choosing friends not easy. Like musk melons you need to try a few- before you get sweetest. #MHChat
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@fearless_health @HerseyJane @MHChat The intent & tendency are very personal. The tent being pitched or unhitched often requires sense ability and sense activity to b fully understood. The extent of dissonance is often in proportion 2 the failure 2 perceive & receive. Tending & attending 2 each other at a safe pace.
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@MHChat Sabotage is bad 😐 Kindness, gratitude, honesty, respect, closeness, sharing 👍 Stupidity, BPD 👎 Trust is a big essential. Understanding & communication are the main essentials because, no matter what else gets in the way, they enable problems to be overcome#MHchathat
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Authenticity, mutual trust and respect. Hindrances can be toxic behaviors like competing (friendship is not a race) comparison and envy. #MHChat @MHChat twitter.com/MHChat/status/…
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Thank you for joining & sharing your views about friendship @MHChat we'll leave this chat open until next week so everyone can share their views @MHChat. We won't have a chat next week & wish you care, kindness & healthy friendships & look forward to seeing you 1 June #MHChat
In that sense, friendships are a reflection and an integral extension of our identity and at the same time they shape and support our identity and development. @MHChat #MHChat
Life is identity work and we come to know about our identity through relationships and friendships. Therefore, healthy friendships and good relationships are essential to our sense of self and identity. @MHChat #MHChat
@MHChat A5: I believe Trust is very important with friendships. Being open, honest and being a gud listener helps friendships. What can hinder a relationship can include finding time for each other, being available or maintaining that close bond #MHChat
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@SabotagedFool2 @MHChat Well expressed. You do remain uniquely yourself, though, with or without friends. As social beings it is natural to seek friends.
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@HerseyJane @MHChat People with low self esteem tend to try to drag people down so that they do not feel alone with poor self worth. Improving self-esteem and self-confidence helps immensely, especially for pay-it-forward.
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@MHChat a5 honesty, trust, mutual respect Hinders - over-reliance, inequality, disrespect,
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@MHChat Boundaries increase the bonding, unless they are are bandage which communicates the obvious oppression. In the same tent safely.
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@MHChat A5 Closeness, sharing and consolidating what is enclosed. Exposure or disclosure without consent can undermine. #MHChat
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@MHChat #mhchat Psychotherapy from pre-school so children learn about themselves and others.
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@MHChat Yeah, no friendships limits you in many ways. And friendships built on unstable ground, or with either party not sure what was being built, even if it has all the right parts, it affects what the friendship can support... affecting tne expectation & needs of the buddies. #MHchat
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@dajjal_dd @MHChat #mhchat Yes, I used to give people three chances now it's 0. Many people love to seek out vulnerability to sharpen their own inadequacies.
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@dajjal_dd @HerseyJane @MHChat Those are the worst because they know a lot of things that can use against us! #mhchat
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@HerseyJane @MHChat I have had people I called friends that would have made better enemies. They took me for a ride, and made use of me. #MHChat
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@MHChat #mhchat I detest it when I hear people stigmatising others eg, being homeless, unemployed, or young and unemployed. It's usually by people who have little understanding of life and would not dream of befriending people they perceive as below themselves.
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@MHChat At root identity, as a person is sensing yourself as more than a entity. Another person validating that sense clearly solidifies your sense ability and sense activity. Gives depths of resonance. Dissonance identifies conflicts that could enhance or undermine.
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Question 5 @MHChat: What is needed to protect and grow friendships? What helps friendships and what hinders or affects friendships negatively? @MHChat #MHChat
@MHChat #mhchat People can destroy you and your sense of identity and well-being with their own vulnerabilities.
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@MHChat A4 Yes, underSTANDing and conSOLIDation and ENGAGEMENT all serve well to being the unique person that you are. #MHChat
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@MHChat Shared values and shared interests would influence who we have as friendships #mhchat
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@MHChat #mhchat People always assume that others are like-minded. I learned in therapy not to take people at face value and most people have an agenda. I don't allow myself to be drawn in.
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@HerseyJane @MHChat Of course! Well-said! You should be treated as you treat people! With love, kind and respect!
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@MHChat Definitely our wellbeing, both positive and negatively #mhchat
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@SabotagedFool2 @MHChat Sorry to hear, thanks for sharing. Establishing, creating and restablishing boundaries can assist you here, possibly with assistance. Noting the experience of boundary violations you have encountered.
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@MHChat #mhchat For me normal and healthy is not being drawn into situations that I find uncomfortable. Whether with family or others I don't have abusive relationships. I expect people to treat me like I treat them. I have never found that to be the case and enjoy my life anyway.
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@MHChat And even more than usual, that's why i fill the void, (of lack of friendship) with poor coping mechanisms and risky behaviours... oh yeah, another influence is fear of abandonment which is typical of my #BPD dx. #MHchat
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@MHChat @aneweratms @dajjal_dd Yes. A depth of intimacy unmatched, unless the romanticism is a pretence and deception.
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@MHChat Resolution of dissonance and conflict is fundamental to friendship;provides depths of understanding.
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@MHChat I think also that our identity is cemented in ourselves and others by who we have as friendships #mhchat
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@MHChat True friendship exhibits genuine contact and consolidates each person.
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@MHChat #mhchat Many people hone in on vulnerability so I never take friendship at face value.
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@MHChat My identity is all over the shop... between that and major trust issues (eg being targetted, not knowing who framed me for child abduction, police saying its over but knowing stuff like that is never over)... i struggle to make/keep friends or even acquaintances. #Lonely #MHchat
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@MHChat A3 Friendships validate identity, invalidation of communication and commonality would question a person's identity. #MHChat
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@MHChat #mhchat We gain our identity and sense of self by how we are treated by others from childhood. Children who are living in poor deprived circumstances etc may suffer stigma. From my experiences, this affected my attitudes and relationships.
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@MHChat @dajjal_dd Sure yeah! I mean, I've deeply believed that in all relations, parents, bfs, brothers, in order to work better you must consider the person as your friend, at least a little. I strongly think it is the base of successful relationships. #mhchat
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@MHChat We choose friends due to a shared interest, so I think our identity would shape who we choose as friends #mhchat
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@MHChat #mhchat For me any attempt at friendships has developed through close proximity. I have been drawn into situations where when I have disclosed my impoverished and deprived background and there has been a distinct change in attitude.
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Question 4 @MHChat: Can our friendships influence our identity and well-being? Please explain. @MHChat #MHChat
@MHChat You choose friends due to a shared love, pastime, event or occasion #mhchat
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